Skills of the tea master
Sometimes even the martial arts we love can be a frustrating experience. Other students seem to catch on quicker, the time commitment is too demanding, or you wonder if you’re really getting your money’s worth. While these thoughts can go through anyone’s head, I like to think that once you realize it’s not just about the art, but about you and your journey, then you see why you call yourself a martial artist and you show up to be your best. Below is one of my favorite stories about committing yourself to something and finding the real value can be applied to much more in life.
A master of the tea ceremony in old Japan once accidentally bumped into a soldier on the road. He quickly apologized, but the soldier was quick to anger and demanded that the matter be settled in a sword duel. The tea master, who had no experience with swords, asked the advice of a fellow master who did possess such skill.
“Please, you must help me. I must learn to use a sword to fight or I will surely die tomorrow” said the tea master.
“Then surely you will die tomorrow,” said the sword master. “I teach only the best students. What makes you worthy of my knowledge?”
“I’m not a great swordsman, but I practice my tea ceremony every day to make myself the best” he replied.
“If you make us some tea, then I’ll consider your request,” said the sword master.
As he was served, the swordsman could not help but notice how the tea master performed his art with perfect concentration and tranquility. “Tomorrow,” the swordsman said, “when you duel the soldier, hold your weapon above your head, as if ready to strike, and face him with the same concentration and tranquility with which you perform the tea ceremony.”
The next day, at the appointed time and place for the duel, the tea master followed this advice. The soldier, readying himself to strike, stared for a long time into the fully attentive but calm face of the tea master. He stared into his eyes and was in awe of the peaceful confidence as he felt his own melt away. Finally, the soldier lowered his sword, apologized for his arrogance, and left without a blow being struck.
As you practice, remember that it’s about more than just the moves. Sometimes it’s better to practice your art so you never have to raise a fist to come out on top.